《论语》里问孝的人很多,孔子按各人的毛病答,所以同一个问题有好几种答法。朱熹注“善事父母为孝”。
Each topic lists the chapters whose original text mentions it: chapters we have covered include our reading; others show the original only. Uncovered chapters will be added automatically once the full text is online.
- 1.2Filial and fraternal duty as the root of ren
有子曰:其为人也孝弟,而好犯上者,鲜矣;不好犯上,而好作乱者,未之有也。君子务本,本立而道生。孝弟也者,其为仁之本与!
Filial and fraternal duty is where practising ren begins. Today: kind to strangers online, no patience for one's parents at home — that is starting from the far end.
- 1.6A young man at home is filial
子曰:弟子入则孝,出则弟,谨而信,汎爱众,而亲仁。行有余力,则以学文。
This is about order, not about choosing one and dropping the other. Today: the capable person who never studied has nothing to check himself against when he is wrong.
- 1.11While the father lives, observe the son's intent
子曰:父在,观其志;父没,观其行;三年无改于父之道,可谓孝矣。
What is wrong, change now; what can wait, let wait — that is time given to what one cannot bear to let go. Today: the small factory a father left behind.
